Faith is Like a Little Seed

Family Home Evening: we spend time together as a family, a spiritual message is shared, snacks are a must, and a valuable lesson is learned by all...we hope. Oh sure, there are times when tempers flare, threats are made, noise levels get out of control. Then there are the disruptions that the kids make. Catch that one? :) Yes, the words have actually come out of my mouth, "If you don't keep your hands to yourself, shut your mouth, and close your eyes next time we pray you're gonna get it!" Prayers and threats? Wait those things don't mix. That's when I tell myself that one day I'll miss all the giggling, the teasing, and the playing with smuggled in toys that seem to be a part of most family nights. It may take a few days to make myself really feel it, but eventually I laugh, mostly at myself. And, believe it or not, a lot of times the kid who you think was paying the least amount of attention to your lesson comes up to you at some point and says, "Hey, Mom. You remember in Family Home Evening when you said..." It does happen, people! (That's when, in my mind, the clouds open and a heavenly choir sings as beams of sunlight pour through.)

Kassy taught this week's lesson as she was passing off a goal for Personal Progress. She did a great job teaching us about faith. We opened by singing "Faith," prayed, read a scripture, she gave a brief explanation of faith, and then read the story of the brother of Jared. She asked J.T. and I if we could share a story about how faith in Heavenly Father has helped us in our lives. Then she posed the question to her sisters, "How can you show faith in Heavenly Father in your life?" They gave a few answers and then each drew pictures. (Ava's is currently MIA, but will be added once it's found.) Enjoy looking over their responses. There's one in particular that I find pretty comical. Only because it rings so true to my life.

Bella showed faith when she lost her school book, prayed for help, and then was able to easily find it.

Trista sees the little girls being naughty and bothering Mommy a lot. That night she prays that they will be nicer the next day so that Mom will be happier. Thanks to her faith, the little girls are nicer the next day and Mom is happy.

I'm sure to 2-year-old Maya that there is a deep and faithful meaning inside all those scribbles.

Aria shows some boys counting their money so that they can show their faith by paying their tithing. 

My 12 Year Old Gets It: Kassy's Argumentative Research Paper

Below is Kassy's essay on her view about second hand smoking in public. I applaud my girl for her stance! As the mother of an asthmatic child, I've seen firsthand the effect that cigarette smoke can have: wheezing as we played in our neighborhood pool and another mother enjoyed her cigarette on the other side of the fence, coughing as we enter grocery stores because we had to walk through a wall of smoke brought on by employees on a smoke break. For the smokers it's their choice and they accept the consequences. For my daughter and many others it's an unnecessary health risk forced upon them by others.

Kassy's made me think. I've come to the decision that from now on whenever I enter a place of business and am forced to walk through the afore mentioned walls of smoke, my visit will be followed up with a letter, e-mail, or call to that company. I think employers should take responsibility for their employees actions and should be notified when those actions harm others. If you agree, I encourage you to do the same. Now, enough from me, here's what Kassy has to say...

Have you ever walked out of a store or the exit at work and seen someone smoking? If you have you probably took a breath of their smoke when you really didn’t mean to. There was no way to avoid it because the person was right there. That smoke was called secondhand smoke and can be harmful to your body. To avoid an accident like this, states should have designated smoking areas away from the entrances and exits and other areas in public so others will be protected from secondhand smoke. 

Secondhand smoke can do many harmful things to your body, but one of the worst is cancer. You don’t need to breath in secondhand smoke all the time, every day to cause cancer. Brief exposure can be all it takes to set cancer in motion. Last year it was estimated that 3,400 deaths from lung cancer were caused by secondhand smoke.

Cancer is not the only harmful effect of second hand smoke. It also can cause heart disease. People who are exposed to smoke at work have their risks increased by 25% - 30%. Brief exposure can also damage the lining of the blood vessels in the throat. People with asthma are at risk for an asthma attack when exposed to smoke.

The state of Georgia and most other states in the South only have laws against smoking inside work buildings or public buildings. That law only protects you inside, but outside you are susceptible to the harmful smoke. Since there are no laws for outside, people can smoke where ever they want. My opinion is that there should be a place at least 50 feet from the entrance to a building for people to smoke.

Some may say that smoking isn’t illegal and that the government has no right to limit their smoking. No, smoking isn’t illegal, but smoking is a choice you make for yourself. Smoking is harmful to your body and when you smoke around other people you are harming them which you have no right to do. A designated smoking area would not limit their smoking at all. It’s simply moving the place they smoke away from other people.

Now you see the damage secondhand smoke can do and the few laws protecting us from it. People who want to live a healthy life should not have to suffer because of someone else’s decision to smoke. Instituting smoking areas would not be a hard thing to do and would not limit a person’s right to smoke. This simple solution just might put us on the road to a healthier nation.

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